We went to our FINAL wedding of the year this weekend, and I have to say, I'm going to need about a year before I can attempt to do the chicken dance again lol. So, after attending so many weddings and planning my own, I wanted to share some things that I've learned throughout the year in hopes that I can help make the process just as fun for future brides!
1. Remember-This is YOUR day. I know everyone will tell you that a million times, but it really is true. I stressed out over some things and had to be reminded that none of that stuff really mattered in the end. If people want to cause drama, let them. It is important to remember that the day is about celebrating the love that you and your fiance have for eachother. At the end of the day, that is all that really matters.
2. On a less serious but equally important note...UNDERGARMENTS! Anyone and everyone in the bridal party should be wearing the proper undergarments. You would be surprised to see what shows up in photographs! lol.
3. GREAT VENDORS ARE KEY! We ended up having issues with the coordinator that our ceremony/reception venue assigned to us and our photographer as well as our D.J stood up for us 100%! In fact, our D.J ended up doing a better job at coordinating than the coordinator! He kept everyone on time, let me know how things were going, adjusting things when necessary...he was awesome! And I cannot say enough great things about our photographer. He ended up putting the coordinator in her place SEVERAL times throughout the night. The most important part was the fact that it felt like they were there for us every step of the way. They met with us several times before the wedding day, got to know us and our style, and made sure that everything turned out the way we wanted it. I can't even begin to tell you how much that helped!
4. You CAN hand make things that look professional. I think the best example of this was our invitations. I am in love with those things and will never forget them! Will all of our guests keep them forever?...probably not...but doing something unique that represented our style and set the tone for our wedding was extremely important to me. With the help of some amazing ladies I was able to send out something creative and really get the ball rolling for all the wedding excitement!
5. David's Bridal has come a LOOOOOONG way in the past few years. Don't get me wrong, they have always had beautiful dresses, but I never imagined myself wearing one of their designs because they never really had anything that was my style. I wanted something with a vintage elegance to it, but also had a timeless feel. Something that looked like it could have come from my great grandma's closet, but had a shape that would never go out of style. Kind of a weird mix there...but that's what I wanted! lol. To my surprise, I found it there. They are coming out with some very unique designs and seem to have a little something for everyone now! They even started selling birdcage veils!
6. At the end of the night, make sure to tell your new husband or wife how much you love them. I knew Matt didn't care about little things like what song we cut the cake to or how the reception tables were arranged, but he put up with all of it every step of the way. He sat through vendor meetings, helped me find the perfect wedding shoes...he was a trooper. That's one thing, on a looooong list of things, that I love about that boy. If he knows something is important to me, even if he is not so thrilled about it, he is along for the ride with a smile on his face :)
I could say a million more things, but I'm going to stop there! In the end, people are right, nobody notices the little things and everything works out. That doesn't mean that you won't stress over the little things while planning or that you won't freak out when you wake up on your wedding day and it's freaking raining! lol. Just remember how lucky you are to find the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, and celebrate! :)